It's going to be okay :)

A ball with a smiley face on it floats optimistically in water.

There鈥檚 a meme where someone says that their favourite conspiracy theory is that everything is going to be okay.

I never thought about it that way, but I guess that鈥檚 exactly what it is. This statement relies on the thought that somehow, some way everything is ultimately conspiring for good. That鈥檚 a nice thought, and I really do think it鈥檚 true. I find it helps to stop and remind myself sometimes: everything is going to work out in the end, it鈥檚 going to be okay.

It takes the edge off the current struggles to know that I鈥檓 going to be coming out the other end of them. When we hit our lowest points, things can only get better. That鈥檚 obviously true.

I鈥檝e found that optimism also helps me make the best out of bad situations. I try to attack my problems with a smile, and it seems to lead to better outcomes when I manage to do this. It鈥檚 also far less draining than giving聽 into the temptation of wallowing. Unfaltering hope and determination are a powerful combination. Giving up, on the other hand, is often prophetic.

I鈥檝e found seeing the positives helps. So I thought I鈥檇 just remind myself (and you as well) that its going to be okay :)

Image accessed from 11 October 2020.

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