On dissents and rest, and the notorious RBG

Dissenting rose
Dissents speak to a future age. It鈥檚 not simply to say, 鈥榤y colleagues are wrong and I would do it this way,鈥 but the greatest dissents do become court opinions.Ruth Bader Ginsburg

I鈥檝e always looked up to Ruth Bader Ginsburg. So much of the doctoral research I am conducting is fuelled by the trails she has blazed. To me she is a beacon of hope, and so I was particularly saddened by her passing in September. Like many others, I was getting increasingly worried about her health over the past several months. Hospitalisation was becoming more frequent. What would we do without her, without her voice, without her toughness, without her bravery, without her dissents?聽

I think it鈥檚 very important how she describes dissenting and how it is more than plainly disagreeing. It鈥檚 not just saying, 鈥榥o鈥. She talks about how it contributes to the future, 鈥榯hat they are writing not for today, but for tomorrow鈥. It is a contribution, it鈥檚 future-thinking, meaningful, and intentional contribution. It promotes improvement. It鈥檚 thoughtful and courageous in pointing out injustices, paying attention to flaws and weaknesses, and identifying what should be changed.

RBG has become somewhat of a superhero for a lot of women. She鈥檚 achieved so much, worked so incredibly hard, and never hesitated to say that her husband, Marty, was a vital factor in her becoming a lawyer in the first place. She would often describe how his support for her was real and tangible. Her ambition did not mean, she was an uncaring wife. Early in their marriage, with a young baby and Marty battling cancer, Ruth would be helping Marty with his study, making sure she did her own study, as well as look after their baby. Theirs was a true marriage of equals, a partnership, a team.

Women will have achieved true equality when men share with them the responsibility of bringing up the next generation.Ruth Bader Ginsburg

Now she has passed. What do we do? What do I do? I persist. I persevere. I press on and I do so with many others, lifting each other up and continuing the work. It is our turn. Now, I continue to live out my passions, my contributions to the community, and my work, not only for myself and my generation, but for my daughter. I hope that she can聽 enjoy all the opportunities I鈥檝e had - the chance to carve her own path, live her passions, contribute to enhancing the lives of others, protect the environment, and be happy and safe. I also hope she gets to enjoy opportunities I鈥檝e not had the privilege of experiencing.

Notorious RBG - I love how many have said, 鈥榟er rest is earned鈥. How very true. Now she is resting with her beloved equal, Marty.

PS: Let me leave you with a few more of my favourite quotes from Justice Ruth Bader Ginsburg:

  • 鈥淵ou think about what would have happened ... Suppose I had gotten a job as a permanent associate. Probably I would have climbed up the ladder and today I would be a retired partner. So often in life, things that you regard as an impediment turn out to be great good fortune.鈥
  • "[W]hen I鈥檓 sometimes asked when will there be enough [women on the supreme court]? And I say 鈥榃hen there are nine.鈥 People are shocked. But there鈥檇 been nine men, and nobody鈥檚 ever raised a question about that."
  • "I鈥檓 dejected, but only momentarily, when I can鈥檛 get the fifth vote for something I think is very important. But then you go on to the next challenge and you give it your all. You know that these important issues are not going to go away. They are going to come back again and again. There鈥檒l be another time, another day."
  • Sarah Grimke and RBG: 鈥淎ll I ask of our brethren is that they take their feet off our necks and permit us to stand upright.鈥
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