Social distancing made me see friends more
So looking to one of the positives that came out of COVID-19, I actually spent more time chatting and connecting with people than I would have otherwise.
I think the main reason is that when you know something is there, you kind of take it for granted. For me, I told myself that I could go catch up with people anytime, so I didn鈥檛 feel any pressure to ever do it. With social distancing, I started to feel like catching up with people wasn鈥檛 as readily available; so I set more time aside for it.
Will this mean there鈥檚 any difference to how much I catch up after the pandemic? I think I鈥檓 partly spending more time with people because I have a little bit more spare time. This is going to change, I鈥檓 sure I鈥檒l be going back having my life filled to the brim with obligations soon enough. Even so, I think that I will see friends more than I used to before. I鈥檝e finally put in the effort to have regular catch ups, and it really isn鈥檛 that hard once the time is set aside.
I鈥檝e also learnt how to better connect with people online. As friends go interstate, it鈥檚 good to be familiar and comfortable with video call catch-ups. Face to face isn鈥檛 always an option and it鈥檚 good to still keep in touch. I wouldn鈥檛 know about all the little tricks and games you can play online if this hadn鈥檛 happened.
Being trapped at home hasn鈥檛 always felt amazing, but I鈥檓 glad that some positive things have come out of it.