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This year (the 18^th ofÌýMay)ÌýmarkedÌýfive years since the series finale ofÌýMad Men.ÌýIn the intervening years, I’ve seen manyÌýother TV shows, but none that I’ve thought of as often or that have affected me in quite the same way.Ìý

In case you missed it,ÌýMad MenÌýis set in the microcosm of advertising in 1960s Manhattan,ÌýandÌýfollows ad-extraordinaire Don Draper, as he seeks to escape his true identity in the futile search for connection and a sense of belonging. The series reflects on an era that is rife with racial tensions and that just pre-dates the rise of second wave feminism; a time of rapid social, cultural, and political change, and Don Draper isÌýa meditation on each of these aspects.

So, in honour of the seven seasons that creator Matt Weiner imparted, here’s seven of the must-see episodes (warning: spoilers ahead).
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The WheelÌý(Season One, Episode Thirteen)

The WheelÌýfeatures perhapsÌýthe finest salesman moment of the whole series, as Don pitchesÌýan idea to Kodak, who are struggling to sell an old-fashioned slide projector. The ticket, he tells them, is not the glimmering lure of technology, but something more powerful: nostalgia. A slideshow of photographs appears on the boardroom screen, as Don guide the room on a tour of aÌýlife that doesn’t really belong to him, and a family whom he barely knows. TheÌýman who only ever goes in one direction – forward – brandsÌýnostalgia as ‘a twinge in your heart, far more powerful than memory alone.’ The device that Kodak are selling is powerful, Don says,Ìýbecause ‘it takes us to a place where we ache to go again,’ a place ‘where we know we are loved.’Ìý
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The Gold ViolinÌý(Season Two, Episode Seven)

The Gold ViolinÌýopens with Don purchasing a shiny new Cadillac, and it ends with Betty, Don’s first wife, sitting in silence beside her husbandÌýand suddenly vomiting, ruining her dress and theÌýcar. What transpires in between these two momentsÌýgets to the heart of Don’s weaknesses – as a businessman, but particularly as a husband, as Betty learns of Don’s affair with his client of the moment, Bobbie Barrett.ÌýIt’s a critical moment that sets forth the undoing of Don and Betty’s ill-fated marriage.Ìý
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The Gypsy and the HoboÌý(Season Three, Episode Eleven)

Season 2 has an another, arguably more memorable episode featuring a secretary and a rogue lawnmower (I’ll say no more), but there’s a pivotal scene inÌýThe Gypsy and the HoboÌýbetween Don and BettyÌýthat, even years later, cements it in my mindÌýas one of the greatest episodes of the series. At least once a season,ÌýMad MenÌýwill strip away its layers and return to the idea at its core: a man plagued by a past he can’t escape. This episode encapsulates that perfectly, as Betty unexpectedly confronts Don about the box of memories – letters, photographs, war memorabilia – that she’s discovered in his office. Instantly, the ever-assured Draper shell dissipates to leave Dick Whitman, standing naked and afraid before his wife, the one person who should know him best. Afterwards, when Don and Betty take the kids trick-or-treating their neighbour asks, 'Who areÌýyouÌýsupposed to be?' Neither of them has an answer.
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The SuitcaseÌý(Season Four, Episode Seven)Ìý

There’s an argument to be made that is the best episode ofÌýMad Men (and one of the best episodes in television history, period).ÌýAt the very least, it’s the one that encapsulates the sum ofÌýthe show’s greatest preoccupations and ideasÌýwithin the confines of a singular storyline, asÌýDon and Peggy, his protégé, pull an all-nighter, from office to diner to bar to office again. It’s if they’re the only two people awake in Manhattan, and in thisÌýsolitude PeggyÌýdiscovers that she's exactly like Don.ÌýIt’s a reminder that,Ìýparticularly for Don, this might be the closest thing either of them getÌýto understanding another person, and to being understood in return.
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The Other WomanÌý(Season Five, Episode Eleven)

The Other WomanÌýis remarkable mainly for its analysis of the development of one of show’s leading female characters, Joan Holloway.ÌýMad Men's presentation of Joan has always walked a fine line: she’s aware of the sexual power she has, and of the benefits she’s received because of the way she looks (one of many similarities between her and Don, though of course this sort of power functions very differently for a man). These complexities in her character are articulated more literally in this episode, when a highfalutin prospective client informs the company that they’ll only have his vote in exchange for sex with Joan. Joan, once she’s informed, calls it out for what it is: prostitution. Pete Campbell, on the other hand, prefers to think of it as 'business at a very high level.' Ultimately, they get the account, and it’s only when a horrified Don sees that Joan has traded in her office manager status for a partnership that he realises she followed through on the deal. It’s an episode that stirred some controversy, but I’d argue it’s critical, bothÌýfor its examination of Joan’s characterÌýand the repercussions of her decisions thatÌýecho for seasons to come, andÌýalso for what it revealsÌýabout the moral qualms (or lack thereof) of the men at the company.Ìý
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In Care OfÌý(Season Six, Episode Thirteen)

In Care OfÌýfeatures a rare personal breakthrough for DonÌýfollowing a harrowing few months (or years, or decades, depending on how you look at things). Unfortunately, this breakthrough happens while he'sÌýdrunkenly presenting a pitchÌýto an important prospective client. HisÌýlife in ruins, DonÌýhits the road with his kids and stops in Pennsylvania to show them the whorehouse where he grew up;Ìýunable (and perhaps ultimately unwilling) to escape the past that continues to invade his present. In a striking final shot, Don’s daughter, Sally, looks up at herÌýfather with a raisedÌýbrow, realising she doesn’t know him at all. They stand there by the side of the road together, in silence,Ìýas Judy Collins’s ‘Both Sides Now’ closes the scene.
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The StrategyÌý(Season Seven, Episode Six)

There’s something aboutÌýThe StrategyÌýthat feels like its marking the closing of a chapter on theÌýMad MenÌýof old, as in its seventh and final season, the show grapples with how to handle well-worn dynamics between characters that are, both professionally and personally, on the precipice of great change. Indeed, the episode creates an air of nostalgia, as it features some of the show’s longstanding tropes: Pete Campbell behaving like a brat, Roger Sterling delivering wry one-liners, Peggy and Don bickering in the search for the perfect campaign (à la season four’sÌýThe Suitcase),Ìýand Don andÌýMegan (his second wife) perfecting the art of performative happiness in a marriage that’sÌýheading towardsÌýimpending doom. But crucially,ÌýThe StrategyÌýalso reminds the audience that things are not as they once were: Sterling Cooper & Partners are about to lose a prized account, and in a reversal of roles, it’s Peggy exertingÌýherÌýauthority over Don, and Megan who appears to be pulling away from the confines of her marriage, not the other way around. These hard-bitten truths are softened by some of the more sentimental moments of the season, like Don and Peggy reaching a harmonious accord (as they always do) and slow dancing to Frank Sinatra’sÌý'My Way'. Then there's Pete, Don, and PeggyÌýsitting down to dinner at a fast food joint as, even if only briefly, we’reÌýinvited to remember these characters, who are first and foremost colleagues, in the way that we’d always like to: as a makeshift family.Ìý